Daily Points (5 daily points available each day)
1 Family goal
1 Spiritual goal
1 Physical goal
1 Personal goal
1 Any other goal

Weekly Points (3 weekly points available each week)
1 Point for posting your progress
1 Weekly goal of your choice
1 Weekly goal of your choice

These could be anything, but here are a few examples: exercise 4 times per week, eat sweets only twice a week, memorize a scripture every week, share your beliefs with someone else each week, take a child out on a one-on-one date each week, etc.

Monthly Points (2 monthly points available each month- to be added on the last day of each month)
1 Monthly goal of your choice
1 Monthly goal of your choice

These could be anything, but here are a few examples: visit all the sisters on my VT route, attend the temple, connect with a certain family member, read a book, etc.

Each week we will each post our points for the previous week and state if there have been any changes to our goals.

To join us let me (Jessica F) know you are interested and I will allow you to post on the site. We will begin this challenge on Monday, January 30th. (no monthly point for January, though)

Before we start everyone will need to post her intended goals and maybe an introduction about yourself.

Rewards
Friday, March 9th 100 point game night (First one to 150 get to choose the first game we play) Everyone who has 150 points by this day will be invited to attend.


Friday, April 27th 250 point Party (First one to 250 gets to choose what we are going to do)

Friday, June 8th 450 point Celebration (First one to 450 gets a free massage- the rest of us chip in to pay for. Second one to 450 gets to choose the activity.)

You may want to keep daily track of your points so that you can post on the day you reach 100, 250, and 450 if you want to be the first one there!

Monday, February 13, 2012

Jessica's running total 66 points

This week went better than last week, although I've decided to change my personal from using a soft voice with my children to using a calm voice with them. It's been nice that I've gotten back to using a soft voice most of the time, but I've noticed when I'm angry I will still be a little more harsh than I'd like even though my voice is soft it wasn't calm or kind. So, I'm going to work on using a calm voice. When I get angry and feel I can't be calm at the moment then I need to take sometime to calm down before addressing the issue.

I'm also going to change my family goal from doing something with the children everyday to rocking each of the children each day. Rebekah's counselor suggested that we rock her twice everyday. So between Timothy and I we can each do it once a day, we've also extended that to the boys, because we think it may help them with some of the issues they're facing.

I've also been getting headaches everyday that I exercise, so I'm thinking I need to either tone down my exercise or take a break from it. This week I will keep the goal the same and try to tone it down a bit, but if I'm still getting headaches I may have to take a break from it and make a new weekly goal next week.

Monday 4
Tuesday 5
Wednesday 5
Thursday 5
Friday 4
Saturday 5
Sunday 4

Weekly
1 post
1 exercise 4 times
1 send a note

Some of my goals I don't have a problem meeting everyday, but I know that if I don't have daily accountability for it I won't keep it up.

Have a great day!

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